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The 54321 Method: How to Be an Effortless Host Every Time
Sep 27, 2025
Hosting doesn’t have to feel overwhelming! In this video, I’m sharing The 54321 Method—a simple, step-by-step approach that will help you become an effortless host. Whether you’re planning a dinner party, a holiday gathering, or just having a few friends over, this method keeps things stress-free and enjoyable for both you and your guests. If you’ve ever wondered how some people make hosting look so easy, this is the video for you. By the end, you’ll feel confident and ready to host with ease. 💬 Tell me in the comments: What’s your biggest hosting stress? 👉 Don’t forget to like this video, subscribe for more home + hosting tips, and hit the bell so you never miss a new upload! | FREE DOWNLOAD | PRINTABLE 5-4-3-2-1 CHECKLIST - https://diannedecor.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/09/5-4-3-2-1-Method-Checklist.pdf | CHAPTERS | 00:00 Intro 00:43 What Is the 5-4-3-2-1 Method? 01:32 5 Days Before 02:10 4 Days Before 02:46 3 Days Before 03:11 2 Days Before 03:35 1 Day Before
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Hi, it's Lindsay Diane from
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dianecor.com.
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In this video, we're going to talk all
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about how to become an effortless host.
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Now, hosting at home can feel
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overwhelming, but it can be effortless
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with the right strategy. Instead of
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scrambling around at the last minute
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trying to cook and clean and decorate,
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you can glide easily into your event
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with calm and be ready to have a fun,
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enjoyable time with your guests. The key
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is to plan ahead. And this is where the
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54321 method comes in. Let me show you
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how to do it. So, what is the 54321
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method? The 54321 method is a guide that
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will lead you through the 5 days leading
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up to your event, your party, or your
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holiday gathering. It will also lead you
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through the last 5 hours up until guests
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arrive at your doorstep.
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Each stage has its own specific task,
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making it easy for you to pace yourself
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out and prevent lastm minute chaos.
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Think of this as your hosting blueprint.
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By breaking things down into manageable
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chunks, you'll avoid that frantic
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scramble at the last minute that always
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creates just chaos in the home. So,
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let's jump in to day five before your
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event. 5 days before your event, you
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want to make sure that you confirm your
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attendance and start to prep your
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exterior.
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Start by confirming your guest list.
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Send out a reminder text or message to
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anyone who hasn't responded yet so that
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you can get an accurate count of your
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guests.
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This will help you with your food
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planning and your seating arrangements.
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Next, you want to tackle your exterior.
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So, mow the lawn, sweep the porches,
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clear the clutter, tidy any entryways.
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Doing this early means you won't be
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worrying about yard work when you should
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be focusing on the party. 4 days before
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is when you want to deep clean your
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home. Do not leave this to the last
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minute. You want to deep clean your home
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now so that you can just do a quick tidy
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later on.
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So this is your chance to give your home
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a proper cleaning. Dust, vacuum, mop,
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wipe down surfaces. The goal is to set a
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foundation so that in the days leading
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up to your event, all you'll need is a
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light refresh. By handling the big
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cleaning tasks early, you'll instantly
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feel more in control and more like an
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effortless host. Three days before you
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want to gather your decorations and your
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serve wear. So, this is the time to pull
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out your decorations, your candles, your
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tablecloths, and any special serve wear
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that you plan to use. Check for missing
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items. Wash anything that's been sitting
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in storage, and set everything aside in
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one place. This way, you will be
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searching for a missing platter or
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wrinkled table runner at the last
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minute. Two days before your party is
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the time to prepare your party layout
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and prep your space. Walk through your
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home as if you're a guest. Is there
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enough seating? Where will people
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gather? Clear unnecessary clutter.
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Rearrange furniture if needed. And make
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space for food and drink stations. By
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setting up the flow of the party in
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advance, you'll avoid scrambling on the
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day of the event. One day before is when
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you want to do your food prep. This is
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the time to chop your vegetables, your
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onions, your garlic, any ingredients
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that are going to go into your meals.
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You'll want to marinate proteins, bake
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desserts, or prep anything that can be
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made ahead of time. Doing this the night
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before cuts down on the day of stress
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and makes cooking a breeze. As an
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effortless host, you'll be thanking
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yourself for handling as much as
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possible ahead of time. When it comes to
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parties that aren't catered by someone
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else, preparing food, monitoring
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burners, and things cooking at different
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temperatures, not to mention plating and
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putting things on platters takes up more
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time than you expect. I have had this
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happen to me time and time again. So, in
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order to cut down on some of that, try
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to prep as much stuff ahead of time as
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you can and only leave the things that
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need to be cooked fresh and hot to the
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day of the event. 5 hours before you
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want to tackle your decorations. Now is
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the time to put up decorations and set
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the mood. Arrange your centerpiece,
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style your table, and add any finishing
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touches. This leaves plenty of time to
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adjust if something isn't working. Now,
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the exception to this rule is a birthday
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party that may have balloons. Maybe
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you're creating a balloon arch or
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creating an elaborate photo op or
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backdrop. These things you should do the
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night before. But if we're talking about
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just simple decorations here and there,
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maybe you have a Fourth of July party,
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you're putting out a couple of little
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centerpieces with little flags, or you
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want to set up some beverage station
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decor, these things you should do 5
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hours before guests arrive. 4 hours
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before is the time for a quick clean and
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refresh.
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Do a fast tidy up of the main areas.
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Vacuum floors, sweep the entryway, and
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wipe down surfaces. Don't forget the
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bathrooms. Refresh towels, empty trash
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bins, and make sure soap is stocked.
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Guests always notice these details.
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Again, this is not the time to embark on
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a deep cleaning task. If the baseboards
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are not done at this time, they're not
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going to be done for the party. Don't
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get let yourself get segueed into any
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deep cleaning task at this time. It'll
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have to do. As long as your main areas
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where your guests are going to be are
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clear for foot traffic, they look tidy
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and clean, especially the areas where
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people are going to eat and where food
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is being prepared. That's really all you
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need to do. Depending upon the
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complexity of your meal, 3 hours before
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is when you'll want to start cooking.
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Unless, of course, we're talking about
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Thanksgiving, in which case that's a
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whole separate video. But for the most
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part, 3 hours before is a good time to
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start if you're baking, say, appetizers
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or maybe you have a roast chicken and
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some vegetables or something like that
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that needs to be cooked um to be ready
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for dinner time. 3 hours before is a
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good time to get that started. You'll
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want to begin cooking the main dishes
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and plating any food that can be set out
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early, like shakurerie boards or cold
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appetizers. By pacing your cooking,
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you'll avoid the everything at once
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panic. You'll be less likely to
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undercook a dish, overcook a dish, or
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forget to put something in the oven
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altogether. 2 hours before is the time
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for kitchen reset and atmosphere. At
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this point, most of your food should be
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cooking or should be done. And so, all
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of the prep work that took place should
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start to be cleaned up. So you running
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uh you know your dishwasher, you are
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cleaning cutting boards and anything
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that you needed to prep your food,
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knives, spoons, what have you. All of
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that needs to get cleaned up and you
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want to have an empty sink before guests
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come. And you want your countertops to
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be as clear as possible so that you have
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as much room as possible. Once your
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cooking is under control, you really
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want to clean as you go. So, you want to
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wipe down the counters, load the
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dishwasher like we mentioned, and reset
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your kitchen so that it looks
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presentable if guests were to wander in
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early. You'll also want to open the
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windows for fresh air, light candles, or
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set up diffusers to make your home smell
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amazing. And 1 hour before is the time
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to get yourself ready. Give yourself
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ample time to take a shower, pick your
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outfit, which you probably already
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picked anyways. Um, do your makeup,
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whatever you need to do. Give yourself
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ample time to do that so that you're not
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rushing around or you don't feel like
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everyone that shows up is dressed to the
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nines and you're just rushing out of the
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shower, hair still wet, barely any
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makeup on, and, you know, kind of
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running out of your bedroom to greet
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guests. You want to feel amazing during
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your event. You put in so much hard work
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and you want to be dressed as the
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hostess that you are and be able to just
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sit back and relax and enjoy your
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friends and family without worrying
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about your appearance. By prioritizing
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this hour, you'll be greeting guests
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looking polished and feeling confident.
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And this is exactly what an effortless
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host should be. The beauty of the 54321
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method is that it shifts your mindset
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from last minute chaos to steady
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stressfree preparation. By the time the
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first guest rings your doorbell,
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everything will be in place. Your home
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will feel welcoming. The food will be
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ready. And you'll actually get to enjoy
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the event that you worked so hard to
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create. That's it for this video. I hope
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you found it helpful. Don't forget to
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visit me at dianor.com. I post all about
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posting ideas and home decoration over
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there. I thank you so much for watching
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and I'll see you in the next one. Bye.
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